Researchers have found that the biggest difference in sexuality between men and women is the theme of their fantasies. Women tend to draw their sexual imaginations more from the closeness and romance from past sexual encounters; while men tend to focus on erotic, carnal images.
Female fantasies cover the full range of possible topics, from romantic non-sexual seduction to violent rape and torture.
The thoughts that sexually arouse a woman are most likely determined at a very young age, perhaps even before puberty; preadolescent girls have sexual fantasies and women report 46% of them experienced sexual desire prior to or around the same time as their first menstrual period.
Many experts on sex have emphasized that the way women view sexual fantasies continue to evolve as the society in which they live in continue to change. More and more women are beginning to have a more active and aggressive take on sexual fantasies due in part to the advancement of various aspects in feminism.
Some women spend much time hoping their men will help put their female sex fantasies into practice.
Top Female Fantasies:
Romantic Sex: Women often fantasize about being seduced and carried away on horseback ... Romantic fantasies are a traditional form of fantasy that is safe as long as a woman does not confuse her fantasies with reality.
Domination: Among the top sexual fantasies that women have is domination over men. Surveys found that there are more and more women who find sexual arousal in the idea that they hold more control or power over men while having sex.
The most favorite sexual fantasy acts include spanking or trashing out their partners while having sex and telling the men what sexual position or act to perform.
Sex with a Stranger: Sex with a mystery partner is one of the most interesting and popular sexual fantasies in women. Having sex with a total stranger whom women will never see again you can be openly sexual without fear of being labeled. If the sexual partner is faceless then there is no need to worry about facing them afterwards.
Surrender of Control: This type of fantasy allows women to be sexual without being responsible for their actions. If you are being raped or are tied up, you are not in control of what happens to you and must do whatever is required of you. If you are not in control, you still remain a "good girl" even during the naughtiest of sex. These fantasies allow women to be openly sexual and explore different aspects of their sexuality, something many women cannot do in real life. While in the fantasy they are no
Bad Girls: Bad girls have hot naughty sex. Women who are "good girls" in real life may like to imagine what it is like to be openly sexual. They may fantasize that they are a prostitute, a stripper, or any other seductress. A woman may fantasize that she is dressed in a provocative manner in a room full of horny men, and perhaps women.
Being Sexually Desirable: Most women desire to be found attractive by someone. In her fantasies one person or an entire football stadium full of people can find a woman attractive. A woman can choose to look or dress in any manner she chooses. She can be nude or provocatively dressed in public. Her behavior can be openly sexual.
Getting Caught: The possibility of being caught can certainly enhance the mood. Knowing that strangers know makes us tingle. The same principle applies to others hearing you have sex. The perv inside cannot help but say, "I want you all to know I'm dripping right now."
Putting on a Performance: Many women are secret exhibitionists. Having an audience watch them as they indulge in their wildest sexual fantasies gives a large number of ladies a secret thrill.
Voyeurism: Women generally like to watch for the same reasons men do: it is erotic, exhilarating and a bit taboo. She may fantasize about peeping through the neighbor's bedroom window, spying on a kinky couple in the park, anything that allows her be naughty without getting her hands dirty, so to speak.
Rape: Rape is a very popular fantasy among women. Most psychologists believe this female sex fantasy allows a woman to have the wild, dirty sex she craves, without having to suffer the guilt that often follows. These female sex fantasies usually involve a handsome man carrying her off to his bedroom and quickly getting down to business. She will protest as he tears her clothing off and expertly arouses her body, but on the inside, she will love every minute of it. This continues on and leads her to an incredible orgasm despite her earlier protests. This female sex fantasy allows a woman to be wanton and enjoy sex - something society rarely permits.
Threesome with another woman: In this scenario, the man is meant to play voyeur until the woman is ready for more action (the men in this fantasy is NOT playing with the other girl). This allows her to experience the best of both worlds without having to worry about things like jealousy or sharing.
Threesome with two men: This female sex fantasy involves the woman being worshipped and loved by two handsome men. These men are typically heterosexual and, therefore, only interested in the woman.
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